Comments on: Why do we withhold from those we love? http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/ Tue, 17 Jan 2012 14:56:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Canton http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-170 Canton Mon, 30 Aug 2010 17:21:18 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-170 Hey I'm replying to your reply. This comment should be double-indented. Hey I’m replying to your reply. This comment should be double-indented.

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]]> By: Londa Blinka http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-144 Londa Blinka Sun, 04 Jul 2010 18:37:48 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-144 an individual your own good post. Extremely educational along with My personal appreciated studying this the some other articles. Many thanks sharing as well as carry on the truly great operate. an individual your own good post. Extremely educational along with My personal appreciated studying this the some other articles. Many thanks sharing as well as carry on the truly great operate.

]]> By: dearjude http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-139 dearjude Fri, 02 Jul 2010 23:15:36 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-139 Wish i could run this through me in French,,thanks would you be open to me linking you up with the cqpnl in Montreal? Wish i could run this through me in French,,thanks
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]]> By: Angellface http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-37 Angellface Tue, 29 Sep 2009 03:27:37 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-37 Being withholding is a fear/pain-based reaction because we have yet to accept and love ourselves unconditionally. We can neither understand nor give to others that which we have yet to experience ourselves. There are really only to reactions to anything: Love and Pain. Withholding people are speaking from a place of pain which I honor. I prefer to speak from a place of love. Namaste. Being withholding is a fear/pain-based reaction
because we have yet to accept and love ourselves unconditionally. We can neither understand nor give to others that which we have yet to experience ourselves. There are really only to reactions to anything: Love and Pain. Withholding people are speaking from a place of pain which I honor. I prefer to speak from a place of love. Namaste.

]]> By: Keeping Perspective http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-36 Keeping Perspective Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:44:18 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-36 I withhold from the one's I love because I have me judging me in how I do me. I see me as being different or have me being in some way "out of sync" with the world in me. I not only withhold me, but then I have me retreat when I should express me and open me up. I also have withholding me hiding a lie or concept of me that no longer fits me. I understand that the truth will "set me free". I get me today. I withhold from the one’s I love because I have me judging me in how I do me. I see me as being different or have me being in some way “out of sync” with the world in me. I not only withhold me, but then I have me retreat when I should express me and open me up.

I also have withholding me hiding a lie or concept of me that no longer fits me. I understand that the truth will “set me free”.

I get me today.

]]> By: Dauntless http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-34 Dauntless Mon, 14 Sep 2009 22:18:21 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-34 I withhold from those I love for fear of being judged as imperfect. I withhold from those I love for fear of being judged as imperfect.

]]> By: joyce le vine http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-33 joyce le vine Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:09:50 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-33 i find this new website appealing and .informative. It peaks my interest and i would be interestd in attending a workshop at some point in the future. i find this new website appealing and .informative. It peaks my interest and i would be interestd in attending a workshop at some point in the future.

]]> By: Dearjude http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-32 Dearjude Sat, 12 Sep 2009 02:06:19 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-32 I withold from those I love because I feel undeserving of their love, unlovable. I also feel underserving of loving them. I withold from those I love because I feel undeserving of their love, unlovable. I also feel underserving of loving them.

]]> By: Curious http://greenpsychology.net/2009/07/withholding-from-those-we-love/#comment-31 Curious Sat, 12 Sep 2009 01:38:48 +0000 http://greenpsychology.net/?p=158#comment-31 I am aware of withholding for two reasons. First, I withhold when I don't feel good about myself. It's as if, because I don't feel good, I don't want others to get close. I don't want them to feel about me the way I feel about me. Second, I withhold because I fear the raw vulnerability of connecting at a deeper level. I am aware of withholding for two reasons. First, I withhold when I don’t feel good about myself. It’s as if, because I don’t feel good, I don’t want others to get close. I don’t want them to feel about me the way I feel about me.

Second, I withhold because I fear the raw vulnerability of connecting at a deeper level.

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